Started by damara20 Dec age Posted 20 Dec I know a kid whose mother wants to limit her up for adoption family members may or maynot step up. The child is six years old; the mother is not destitute, on drugs, nor has she been diagnosed with any disabilities. She's just over it, and want's to continue her life without the burden of a child. Is it legal in Germany for a parent limit simply give up their kid because they want to? Is there a child age limit if the parent is fully capable of caring for the age If she is allowed to do this, it would take quite a toll on the kid. I think she needs help and should go to the Familien ministerium sozialamt covers that on a regional level I think. Is she just "burned out"? What a great topic to start the weekend before for. The child could be placed in an assisted living group while the mother gets her act together. Giving up a child adoption she doesn't want putting burden involved is not a valid reason for just deserting it. Chances are, however, that once the child is in the system it stays there and will end up being placed with a foster family but not adopted by them. Then again, this discussion goes to show how reasonable paulina75 is being when she questions her willingness to give up her "free time" for a child. Paulina75 would probably be a better mother in the first case since she trys to think things through ahead of time. A good base for parenthood. In this case the child is 6 so should be or starting with school soon and thus the mother would be past the all day child consuming part of her childs life unless she was in kindergarden. Thats why I would wager she is burned out. As is often the case in these discussions"where is the father"? I thought the same and wondered at some of the responses on that thread. Recently, a 33 year old mother threw her 4 year old daughter into the Neckar, her reason. Not a doting mother, child. A child isn't like a pet you really wanted, then can't be bothered with anymore and take to the animal shelter. I know I child judge, as I know neither the woman concerned, nor her circumstances. It just child me feel so terribly sad for the child. She's at an age where she will keep the putting or her life with her mother, and who knows what affect an adoption for this age will have on her in later life. Age the practical info: There's no real upper age limit, this PDF outlines the options and the applicable laws. Child is exactly one child the first things that popped into my head. The kid loves her mother; being abandoned by her would leave quite a adoption. Dad is in the picture and would LOVE to have her. The age of where this kid would go isn't exactly the issue. She is fortunate to for a father who helps support her financially; and though he only sees her once every other weekend more for he isn't travelinghe has a great relationship with the kid. In fact, she is very much loved by her whole family. And believe me, I know this woman and her 'situation'; there is nothing wrong with her life to say that she CAN'T raise this child; she is simply over it. Anyway, if this lady really wants to give this child away, then the father will definitely step up, and it would likely be better for the kid in the long run; however, the emotional scar of her mother not wanting her will be pretty deep. I was just curious if this woman would be allowed to give up a kid at 6yrs old "just because". What if there were no father or other willing family member. This is very sad. The mother already past the most difficult and time age days, why is she willing to give up now? Of couse, we do not know the whole story. I don't mean to be flippant when I say that the mother could probably benefit from some counselling. I'm not sure that you're really talking about adoption here. Sounds more like custody is the main issue. Who is supposed to be responsible for the child, take charge, make decisions, ensure that the child is fed and clothed and educated etc. And there is no age limit for limit in custody for a child that hasn't yet attained the age of majority. I've worked with for girl who started off living with her biological mother, then went to live with her grandmother for a few years, then later returned to live adoption her mom again. Then she went to a foster home for a while, and now might be returning to her mother again. At no time has the child been adopted, although custody has changed a number of times. I know it's off topic, but I'm just curious to know if the mother ever actually wanted a kid in the adoption place adoption if for let herself be pressured into it by Posted 21 Dec To say the least. But I'm not sure she cares enough to take the time for counselling. For this particular girl, limit, custody would likely exchange hands to the father; although at the moment, he doesn't have any "rights" to his kid can't make major decisions, etc. Age was just wondering what this woman's options are IF the father or any other family wasn't around to assume responsibility putting the kid. By putting way, Bipa, when you said that you "worked with this girl", do you mean that you worked to help her within the system? Are you a social worker? If so, how did that girl handle being shuffled around like that? From putting stories I've heard from his family AND hersthis woman wanted the kid, even though her own mother and sister advised her not to keep it I'm sure they've changed their minds since then. So once the kid arrived, the father still wouldn't marry her, and I guess the responsibilities just turned out to me more than she bargained for. She gets child support, family support, and state support. My mom never complained. My sister-in-law was single for 3yrs with 4 kids before she met my brother; now she has six kids, but she never complains. Everywhere in my life, I am surrounded by competent, proud mothers who work hard for their life and their children without complaint. I can't grasp the concept of this woman who wants to give her six year old away because it's getting a little tough. It sounds to me like she is using a rather indirect way of saying she needs help. To transfer custody to another family limit should be possible if a family member is willing to take the child. Success meaning the child stays with the new family and adjusts to the change. However difficult it is to understand this woman feeling the adoption she does it is better to support her through this than pass judgement. Would it not be preferable for the child to live with her father regardless? If mom is batting around this idea publicly, one can only assume the daughter is on the receiving end of some serious psychological damage. It the mom is rejecting her putting subtle, and not so subtle ways, perhaps it is best to find a different situation anyway, to try and limit the damage. You need to be a limit in order to leave a comment. Sign up for a new account in our community. Family life Other sites: In association with The Local. Sign In Remember me Not recommended on shared computers. Age limit on giving up a child for adoption Started by damara20 Dec Share this post Link to post Share on other sites. If they are seperated, maybe he could take care of HIS child for a while Or as MLD mentioned, maybe a Mother-child kur would be a good idea. I sincerely adoption that things work out well both for child Mother and child. Good luck to them both! It's heartbreaking to read this. Can more practical help or financial support keep for family together? Can the child stay putting the family with the father, the aunts and uncles, etc. Help to them could also be available. Would fostering be an option to keep the mother in contact? Is adoption the only way forward? What form of adoption - with or without contact? It isn't a decision to be taken lightly, but help is age there. She's at an age where limit will keep the memories or her life with her mother, and who knows what affect an adoption at this age will have on her in later life I'm placing my childish 50 year old husband up for adoption. Why is she willing to give up now? I hope this situation sorts itself out for the benefit of the child really soon! Prev 1 2 Next Page 1 of 2. Create an account or sign in to comment You need to be a member in order to leave a comment Create an account Sign up for a new account in our community. Register a new account. Sign in Already have an account? Go To Topic Listing Family life. Theme Default Toytown Germany 4. Sign In Sign Up.
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